How does it feels to be cheated?? ( especially by a boyfriend,girlfriend or bestfried)
Of course we always want to know the truth out from people. But gaining the truth is not as easy as spelling it. Lots of geniuses have done the research on this field. But the most famous and successful researched is by Dr Paul Ekman. His research is on micro expression. However, i've reading few articles and watching few videos before writing this down. i have simplify all the long assays into a very simple words. so here they are!
1. they are stiff
-lack of physical movement, no hand movement, arm movement, or leg movement.
2. they will avoid eye contact
- so try to look at them in the eye. if they try to avoid it and get pissed off, you know what does it means!
3. if the hand moves, they'll touch or scratch their nose,face,throat,mouth,behind ear.
4. unmatched emotional gestures and expression
-they say NO but the head is NODDing. vice versa
-saying 'IM SORRY' but the head is shaking.
5. delayed and prolonged expression .
- we are suppose to express the feeling straight away but a lier took a few seconds to express it. and a prolonged expression shows how fake it is.
6. limited facial muscle usage.
-a true smile will shallow the eyes and rises the cheek bones and of course with a smiling lips.
-a faux smile will only involve the lips.
7. they are defensive
- an innocent will be offensive.
(who wont get offended being blame on something they did'nt do right.haha )
8. they will turn the head or body away from facing the questioner.
9. they will not making a direct statement.
- this is where they will twist the story up and down, left and right until it goes nowhere.
10. they look relief when you change the topic.
The Lightman Group, headed by Dr. Cal Lightman, work with law enforcement agencies all over the country to expose the truth in criminal investigations. Specialists who each have their own unique ability in "deception detection" surround Dr. Lightman to uncover some the most heinous crimes ever committed. While Lie to Me focuses on solving crimes, the series also delves into the deceptions these characters must deal with within their personal lives. Handling the truth isn't always an easy task to manage from the ones you love.
An example of micro expression reading